If you are here, its likely that you are struggling in your relationship right now. Or maybe the relationship has suffered so much It's as good as over. I hear you. Ive been there. I used to be very toxic within relationships because I was scared to let people in. So I'd hide the truest part of myself and mask all my issues, then when triggered id gaslight and damage my relationship. I questioned at times if I was even capable of having a relationship! So I get where you are at. You're feeling insecure and scared. But I assure you, that if you do the work you will be able to overcome your anxious attachment and be able to show up in your relationship for the person you truly are. Or have the courage to leave relationships that are not right for you.